The Kismet blog

Wedding planning, minus the guesswork

Straight answers on budgets, guest lists, seating and suppliers, written for couples planning a UK wedding themselves.

Do you need a temporary event notice for your wedding? The £21 form and its real deadline

When a UK wedding needs a temporary event notice, what it costs (£21), and how to count the 10 clear working days so you are not late.

How much alcohol for a wedding of 100: 50 bottles of fizz and 43 of wine

How much fizz, wine and soft drinks 100 wedding guests need, in UK 75cl bottles, split by reception, toast, meal and evening bar.

What a UK wedding actually costs in 2026, and why the two big reports disagree

Bridebook says £20,604 and Hitched says £21,990. Why the figures differ, what both exclude, and how to work out your own number instead.

The wedding admin nobody warns you about

Giving notice, the 28-day rule, booking a registrar, venue licensing and insurance. The unglamorous UK wedding admin that catches couples out.

Do you have to invite your cousin's partner?

A decision rule for wedding plus-ones and partners that holds up when someone questions it, plus how to word invitations so the answer is clear.

Round vs long tables at a wedding: the trade-offs venues skip

How round and long wedding tables differ on conversation, space, sightlines and cost, and which suits your room and guest count.

Your seating plan will change after you finish it. Build for that

RSVPs move right up to the deadline and past it. How to build a wedding seating plan that survives late changes without starting again.

The UK top table order, and why most advice you find is American

The traditional UK top table order explained, why it differs from the American head table, and four alternatives that work better for some families.

Seating divorced parents at a wedding: what actually works

Three top table options, the equal-distance rule, and how to handle step-parents without a row.

When to send wedding invitations, worked backwards from the only fixed date

Save the dates 9 to 12 months, invitations 6 to 8 weeks, RSVP 3 to 4 weeks. Why UK and US advice differs, and the deadline you should actually plan around.